SB 7.2.34

TEXT 34
 
TEXT
त्वया कृतज्ञेन वयं महीपते कथं विना स्याम सुहृत्तमेन ते ।
तत्रानुयानं तव वीर पादयोः शुश्रूषतीनां दिश यत्र यास्यसि ॥ ३४ ॥
tvaya krtajnena vayam mahi-pate
katham vina syama suhrttamena te
tatranuyanam tava vira padayoḥ
susrūsatinam disa yatra yasyasi
tvaya-you; krtajnena-a most grateful personality; vayam-we; mahi-pate-O King; katham-how; vina-without; syama-shall exist; suhrt-tamena-the best of our friends; te-of you; tatra-there; anuyanam-the following; tava-of you; vira-O hero; padayoḥ-of the lotus feet; susrūsatinam-of those engaging in the service; disa-please order; yatra-where; yasyasi-you will go.
TRANSLATION
O King, O hero, you were a very grateful husband and the most sincere friend of all of us. How shall we exist without you? O hero, wherever you are going, please direct us there so that we may follow in your footsteps and engage again in your service. Let us go along with you!
PURPORT
Formerly, a ksatriya king was generally the husband of many wives, and after the death of the king, especially in the battlefield, all the queens would agree to accept saha-marana, dying with the husband who was their life. When Panḍu Maharaja, the father of the Panḍavas, died, his two wives-namely, the mother of Yudhisthira, Bhima and Arjuna and the mother of Nakula and Sahadeva-were both ready to die in the fire with their husband. Later, after a compromise was arranged, Kunti stayed alive to care for the little children, and the other wife, Madri, was allowed to die with her husband. This system of saha-marana continued in India even until the time of British rule, but later it was discouraged, since the attitude of wives gradually changed with the advancement of Kali-yuga. Thus the system of saha-marana has practically been abolished. Nevertheless, within the past fifty years I have seen the wife of a medical practitioner voluntarily accept death immediately when her husband died. Both the husband and wife were taken in procession in the mourning cart. Such intense love of a chaste wife for her husband is a special case.

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