fault finding

It is a qualification of a Vaisnava that he is adosa-darsi; he never sees others' faults. Of course, every human being has both good qualities and faults. Therefore it is said, sajjana gunam icchanti dosam icchanti pamarah: everyone has a combination of faults and glories. But a Vaisnava, a sober man, accepts only a man's glories and not his faults, for flies seek sores whereas honeybees seek honey. Haridasa Pandita never found fault with a Vaisnava but considered only his good qualities.    (More...)