Room Conversation – May 15, 1976, Honolulu
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Room Conversation
- 15 May, 1976, Honolulu 760515R1-Honolulu [62:55 Minutes]
Prabhupada: ...she still upstairs?
Prabhupada: Hm?
Radha-vallabha: Yes. Bhavananda.
Prabhupada: Hm?
Prabhupada: Palika.
Devotee (3): From Los Angeles?
Devotee (3): It's closer to San Francisco-very far.
Prabhupada: Hm.
Prabhupada: Hm.
Prabhupada: Near Portland?
Prabhupada: Yes. Oregon I remember. So...
Prabhupada: Money-we can send some money.
Prabhupada: No, we can go there.
Prabhupada: See how they are doing.
Prabhupada: No facilities. [devotees laugh] Just what facility? We are not for facility; we are for service.
Prabhupada: Hm?
Prabhupada: Not necessary.
Prabhupada: Hm?
Prabhupada: No man is allowed there, right?
Prabhupada: That's good.
Prabhupada: Hm?
Prabhupada: That's good.
Prabhupada: That is the Vedic system. Those who are husbandless, they should not dress attractively to attract the attention of another man. It is very difficult civilization for the Westerners.
Prabhupada: There is no need of growing.
Prabhupada: What is the use of expanding?
Prabhupada: Yes, that is tapasya, austerity. But she is maintaining?
Prabhupada: Deity picture is nice.
Prabhupada: Tapasa brahmacaryena. This is the beginning of spiritual life. Yesterday I have explained one verse, how Lord Ramacandra comes... You have transcribed?
Prabhupada: Hm. Datte, datte.
Prabhupada: Datte means "maintaining."
Prabhupada: Hm. I am describing... There is one verse how the Supreme Personality of Godhead comes to teach the human society as Lord Ramacandra, as Krsna, as Caitanya Mahaprabhu. You have come to that?
Prabhupada: I think one copy of that explanation may be given with the letter of Bajaj.
Prabhupada: So they are a little ashamed. [devotees laugh]
Prabhupada: Genuinely. Because they see, "Who cares for us?"
Devotee: Who is this?
Prabhupada: That Bajaj is a very rich man, and the son of very important man of Gandhi's contemporary, Vinoba Bhave, and his father, Gandhi, they were working together. His father's name was Jamnalal Bajaj. A very rich man, he joined Gandhi's movement and was financing the movement. So this man is also very big, rich man in Bombay. Very big factory of electrical..., what is it called?
Prabhupada: Ha?
Prabhupada: No, no. Electrical, this fan, plug...
Prabhupada: Appliances, yes. Very big factory in India. Table fan, ceiling fan, all kinds of appliances. Stove. They have got very big factory, and he is the proprietor. He is our life member. He came to see me: "Is it not possible to call that? I am ready." The same thing, "I am ready."
Prabhupada: And they have got this rascal interpretation. Even Gandhi did. That is individuality.
Prabhupada: He is organizing. He is trying to organize. But why not combine? Any moment it can be done, but these rascal will not agree. They stick their own foolishness. It will never be successful. Misinterpreting on the words of Krsna, how much offensive it is they do not know it, and they want success. They do not take seriously that it is Krsna's instruction. They think that somebody has written a, what is called, allegory.
Prabhupada: Mythology, yes. They do not believe there was battle of Kuruksetra and Krsna instructed... Krsna is God and... They all these things...
Prabhupada: That's all. All this Cinmayananda and this Vinoba Bhave and Gandhi and Dr. Radhakrishnan, and all rascals, Aurabindo... They have taken it.
Prabhupada: Hm?
Devotee: He wrote that? [laughter]
Prabhupada: He tried his best, but it is [indistinct].
Prabhupada: One after another.
Prabhupada: Impersonalists. "How God can be person?" They compare with themselves: "But I am a person, what can I do? How can I experience the sky?" They are in perplexity.
Prabhupada: Because it is so authorized and popular. They take the advantage, proving their foolish rascal idea.
Prabhupada: What?
Prabhupada: Now they are becoming entrapped. "As It Is."
Prabhupada: And they accept it. [laughter] And this is becoming very popular; therefore they are perplexed.
Prabhupada: Hm?
Radha-vallabha: Bahulasva gives lectures in the colleges, and he hands out Gitas to all the students, and during the lecture he says, "Turn to page such-and-such and you will see where it talks about karma," and then, "Turn to this page..." And they are all going through the book, going through the book, and after the class he usually sells about five books, because they are so impressed that someone is so well versed in the Gita and can explain it so nicely, and they take the book because they have never seen this before.
Prabhupada: Yes. That is...
[pause and sipping noise, Prabhupada puts cup down on table]
Prabhupada: Hm?
Prabhupada: Who?
Hari Sauri: The library party, one of them was telling me that when they present... The scholars, they get the books, and they like the layout and the Sanskrit and everything like that, but they are not so keen on the purports because they can't speculate on anything. It's so clear and direct they've got nothing left to say themselves. [laughter]
Prabhupada: So we cannot allow any speculation. [laughter] Just see the audacity-they are speculating on the words of the Supreme Personality of Godhead. Such rascals, and we have to accept them as authorities. In Bengal it is called jethamo [imitating the behavior of one's father's elder brother] Jethamo. Just like if a small boy speaks authoritatively before his father, superior, it is called jethamo. What do you call it in English?
Prabhupada: Upstart, impudent. So all these rascals are jakam.
[child crying]
Prabhupada: Who is this particular child, always crying?
Prabhupada: No, he is...
Prabhupada: …I am speaking of. He is always crying.
Prabhupada: Hm?
Prabhupada: Hm?
[child is still crying]
[child is still crying]
Prabhupada: This child is a little disturbing.
Prabhupada: In the temple, no grhasthas allowed. [laughter]
Prabhupada: Temple is meant for brahmacaris, sannyasis. Grhasthas may be engaged in worshiping, taking care, managing, but families should remain outside.
Prabhupada: Yes.
Prabhupada: Hm?
Prabhupada: Here?
Prabhupada: This is the social problem: women without husband. And how scientific it was that the girl, as soon as she is above ten years, the father's responsibility: how to get her married. All my sisters were married from nine to twelve years. And the twelve years old, my second sister, she was belated...
Prabhupada: It was lately.
Prabhupada: Twelve years. So my mother said to my father that "This girl is not being married, I shall commit suicide." [devotees laugh] This is, I have seen. She was elder than me by three years, my second sister. So then hastily, somehow or other, she was married to my brother-in-law as second wife. Second wife… The first wife died. Formerly the boys and girls were married earlier. Just like Caitanya Mahaprabhu, He was married at the seventeen years old. He married for the second time at the age of twenty years. First wife death. So formerly this was the practice. Girl utmost ten to twelve years, and boy sixteen to seventeen or utmost thirty.
Prabhupada: Then, because she was twelve years old, so after one year, because generally in Bengal twelve to thirteen years is the age of puberty. My wife gave birth to first child when she was fourteen years. [devotees exclaim] She was married at eleven years old. So anyway, the idea is that it is the father's duty to get the daughter married somehow or other within thirteen years.
Prabhupada: This is Vedic system.
Prabhupada: Not necessarily the boy should be all well equipped. Simply to see that he is good health and he can work hard. That was all. No education, no money-nothing. Then depends on the fate. "I have given to you a boy who is healthy and he can work hard." Then they are fortunate. This was the system.
Prabhupada: Hm? Yes. My mother's grandfather was very, very rich man, and his daughter was given to a boy whose family was rich, but they became poor, bankrupt. Practically poverty-stricken. Ah, that boy. So my mother's grandmother preferred that "This boy is hard-working and coming from a respectable family; now they have become poor." So he gave her daughter to him, and later on my mother's grandmother gave him five hundred rupees to start some business. So that is at least 150 years ago, my mother's grandmother. So with that five hundred rupees he started a business, and he flourished in such a way that in Calcutta there is a place, it is called Chetla. Chetla, that Chetla, he purchased the whole Chetla. Now there are two big roads. One road is Govinda Chandra Auddy Road, that is the husband of my mother's aunt, and another road, Rakhal Chandra Auddy, that is my maternal uncle. So with that five hundred rupees he made a great fortune. And he had no money. It was given secretly by the mother-in-law, that "You do something with that."
Prabhupada: His... Later on he did a, started business, some lace, lace-making. Not very lucrative, but still. So Indians still believe that that is the [indistinct], the verdict of all Vedic literature, tal labhyate duhkhavad anyatah sukham [SB 1.5.18]. You cannot create your fortune unless God gives you; but you can make honest effort, then depend on God. Karmany evadhikaras te ma phalesu kadacana [Bg 2.47]. That is Indian philosophy. Therefore they did not make too much endeavor-easy-going-but do something; don't be idle. That is the philosophy. So still there is no problem. The boy is married, and he works honestly, and the wife also works honestly as householder. They live peacefully. Not that "I must have this comfort, that comfort." Just like our, that rascal...
[break] No. All this Western wife means, they call it "white elephant." In India they call it.
Prabhupada: White elephant, to maintain. Because formerly people were…, boys were coming in the Western countries, sometimes they married European wife, and later on, after going back, they found it is a white elephant. [devotees laugh]
Prabhupada: White elephant, I mean, if you cannot maintain properly, then there was divorce.
Prabhupada: Therefore they found it "white elephant," to maintain an elephant, white in color. [devotees laugh]
Prabhupada: Hm?
Prabhupada: No, elephant nobody can maintain. It is very difficult to maintain, and he has to be given forty kilograms food daily, and kilo, what is called, forty kilos?
Prabhupada: You have seen elephant?
Prabhupada: Ha. For them such big chapatis are made. [devotee laughs] A whole family's wheat flour will be given, and that is also not sufficient. So many chapatis should be given. Only the kings. Now the princely order is finished, now there is no transaction for elephant, horse. No customers. Formerly there was a market yearly held: horse, elephant, all animals, cows, they were being sold, near Patna. Big. Now since last twenty years it is stopped. Nobody is going to purchase horse and...
Prabhupada: Twenty is maintaining in this age; that is also to his credit, and dowry.
Prabhupada: And just see, when Krsna's mother was married to Vasudeva, dowry: so many hundreds of chariots, so many horses, so many elephants, so many maidservants. Who will be able to keep them? Apart from ornaments, jewelry, saris to the girl, these things were also given, royal, royal family. Then if he can't maintain, then he'll not… Otherwise what is the glory there, if he maintains only a tin car? This is a tin car, canister. As soon as he is stuck up: brr, brr, brr. He has got experience, tin car. Where is elephant?
Prabhupada: Hm?
Prabhupada: President?
Prabhupada: Ha. Ha.
Prabhupada: All of them are doing that. They are taking so many women. At least that Kennedy was, before.
Prabhupada: And this Nixon was also doing that. They take advantage.
Prabhupada: We have to maintain them. They have come to Krsna. How can we refuse them? Some arrangement may be made. The government must help. Approach the government, that these unprotected girls… But they are… Ha?
Prabhupada: Yes, welfare society, they must pay. How we can maintain? But we cannot refuse them. Are they not getting welfare, money?
Prabhupada: So that money, they are giving to the society?
Prabhupada: So they do not take prasadam in the temple?
Prabhupada: Huh?
Prabhupada: Hmm?
Prabhupada: So this is a problem, to maintain these husbandless women.
Prabhupada: And also grhasthas.
Prabhupada: Hm?
Pusta Krsna: Many of the grhasthas are doing saṅkirtana, going out and distributing books, preaching.
Prabhupada: They are giving some service.
Prabhupada: That is wanted, grhastha. Just see the foolish law, that there is no sufficient boys to keep wife at least, and they have made laws: one wife. Why one wife?
Pusta Krsna: In this philosophy of democracy there is not supposed to be any discrimination. They would say that this is discrimination against women, because in the Western countries actually the women have this concept that they are just as good as men. They are thinking like that, and the men are thinking also the women are probably just as good. They don't...
Prabhupada: Then why are they in difficulties, without husband?
Prabhupada: But they like that? This neglected position, lying down at the back of the car without any husband, without any provisions, they like it?
Prabhupada: If they like it, then let them be like that.
Prabhupada: They cannot appreciate that?
Prabhupada: There is reason, but the man does not marry because there are so many implications.
Prabhupada: Yes. Therefore called svami, svami. Husband is called svami, means protector. [dogs barking] Where are these dogs?
Prabhupada: That is the psychology. That is the psychology. They know that "The girl whom I am going to marry, she will never be faithful." That is the impression. "So why shall I marry and take charge?" This is the psychology. I know in the beginning, 1965, one carpenter boy he was coming to me; he gave me some benches, secondhand. So I asked him, "Why don't you get yourself married?" because I did not know. So he replied, "Swamiji, I know that I'll not get a faithful, chaste wife," he said. Then I could understand the psychology why the boys do not get married. No husband wants an unchaste, unfaithful wife. That is a shock to him. And here you have to allow the wife to go out with her friends. You cannot object.
Prabhupada: With her friends.
Prabhupada: I saw that John Lennon. He was maintaining her former husband or friend, the wife's...
Prabhupada: She already had a friend, and John Lennon wanted her.
Prabhupada: Yes. [laughter] And he was working as his garden manager. Now that boy has kidnapped the girl. Not the…, the daughter, and he has went away, and now John has gone after him.
Prabhupada: Ha?
Prabhupada: Ha?
Pusta Krsna: He wrote one song on a record album. It was called "God is a Symbol," and he mentioned George. He said, "I don't believe in this, I don't believe in that, I don't believe in Gita. What has Krsna got on you, George?" Like this. And he went on. At the end he says, "All I believe is in Yoko and me-that's reality." [laughter]
Prabhupada: Who cares for you?
Prabhupada: He said?
Prabhupada: Everyone low class. What they have got? Simply they got some money and became respected. That's all. Everywhere money is everything. Only on account of; otherwise what qualifications they have got? George, suppose he has got some money, but he has got qualification; he has done something for Krsna. He has taken. I asked him first of all $19,000 for paying the bill of Krsna, and he paid. You know that?
Prabhupada: Hm. He actually did pay-$19,000.
Prabhupada: Yes. I asked him to write it. And I have acknowledged his money.
Devotees: Yes.
Prabhupada: He is a good boy.
Prabhupada: I told you, [indistinct].
Hari Sauri: It describes in the Bhagavatam that Hiranyakasipu, he was seated in the throne of Indra, in Indra's palace, so then we were wondering, well, did Lord Nrsimhadeva appear on the planet earth or was it in Indra-loka?
Prabhupada: It was not in this planet, so far I... But we are not concerned about the history; we are concerned about the pastime.
Prabhupada: So why not publish a chapter from Bhagavatam? I think Seventh Canto is full of Prahlada's...
Prabhupada: So you are not printing now?
Hari Sauri: There are so many violent stories in the Bhagavatam.
Prabhupada: Ha?
Hari Sauri: There are so many descriptions of fighting in the Bhagavatam, and they by far excel anything the mundaners can even conceive of. Like where Jarasandha gets torn in half, or where his army was defeated and it describes how the bodies were floating like islands...
Prabhupada: Their idea is God cannot kill anyone. No?
Prabhupada: Isn't that the idea?
Prabhupada: You worship black Krsna. Why did you not say? Black is not neglected. We worship, you see our Deity, black Krsna.
Prabhupada: Hm?
[pause]
Prabhupada: Hm?
Radha-vallabha: They have ordered the sign for the front of the Press with your name, and we are going to try our best to have it up by the time you get there. Generally it takes one month for them to carve the letters, but we will try to have it up when you get there. Ramesvara said he is very, very sorry that when you originally told him about the sign he had already purchased the other letters, and he did not want to displease you by spending more money, and he is very sorry. He has immediately ordered the letters for you.
Prabhupada: That was two years ago he said that it should be taken.
Prabhupada: One girl wrote some articles.
Prabhupada: She is working still?
Prabhupada: Yes. Your name is also.
Prabhupada: She is still with us?
Prabhupada: She is married or not?
Prabhupada: If one is fully Krsna conscious, this marriage problem does not disturb.
Prabhupada: Brahmacari… Man can remain without sex. It is not very difficult for him to. But women? Man can be trained up. He can remain throughout the whole life without sex. But it is a little difficult, unless they are given special protection. Special protection means strictly not to intermingle with any boy. Then they do. That is not possible in the Western… Otherwise she can remain brahmacarini under the protection of elder brother, or father and mother-not to allow-strict-mix freely to the boys.
Prabhupada: They make the girl prostitute to bring money. I have got experience. They do not like their young girls to marry. Better find out boys, and bring money. And once woman is trained up to prostitution, she will never become faithful wife. It is impossible. She is spoilt.
Radha-vallabha: In America, if the woman is not like a prostitute, then she is ridiculed. All her friends ridicule her. Most of the degradation actually occurs in schools. When you go to school, the grade school, the elementary school and the high school and then college, this is where you learn all of this sex life, all of the intoxication. This is where you learn it. You learn it from the other children. Actually, that's the source of all the degradation. The meat-eating is taught by the parents, but everything else is school...
Prabhupada: Not only the parents. At the school they distribute contraceptive ingredients, tablets. In India it is also a problem.
Prabhupada: Hm?
Prabhupada: Literature?
Prabhupada: Not only that, on public streets they are embracing, kissing.
Prabhupada: Unnatural life. Western society is unnatural.
Prabhupada: Accha?
Hari Sauri: Even in the prisons, they allow the wives of the prisoners to come so that…, and stay for the weekend at the jails. They were doing that program in England, because the men were complaining, they were becoming agitated, no sex life. They are prisoners, criminals, so they were allowing their wives to come.
Prabhupada: What if he has no wife?
Prabhupada: Homosex?
Radha-vallabha: Yes. He did not want it, so he did not want to be homosexual, so they had to put him in a place where there were no other men, because practically all of them were like that. They become so insane after sex life. He escaped from prison, though. He jumped over the wall, and for three days went through the mountains with no food, and he escaped, then he went to India.
Prabhupada: He escaped, how?
Prabhupada: Accha.
Prabhupada: He did some service?
Prabhupada: No. He distributed some book?
Devotee: Who was he? He was a devotee?
Prabhupada: Hm?
Prabhupada: I heard the name. So he has gone to India?
Prabhupada: Oh.
Prabhupada: He jumped over the wall?
Radha-vallabha: Yes. He jumped over the wall, then he went through the mountains of Pennsylvania to escape. He had his striped prison suit on. They give them a striped suit in the prison. And all the neighboring towns, they tell the people if they see anyone like that, then they will give a big reward. So he was very frightened. He was walking through towns with his striped suit, and people were seeing him.
Prabhupada: Sanatana Goswami did.
Prabhupada: He could not jump over. He paid for that. [devotees laugh] What money he had, he paid. But he did all this for Caitanya Mahaprabhu.
Devotees: Jaya.
Prabhupada: In those days it was unique.
Prabhupada: How he arranged for getting free from prison.
Prabhupada: Heh?
Prabhupada: He had money, he bribed. But who has money?
Prabhupada: Yes.
Prabhupada: Fifty percent for Krsna, twenty-five percent for family, and twenty-five percent for personal emergency.
Prabhupada: When was?
Prabhupada: Oh. In England, you gave to our temple?
Prabhupada: That's all.
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