760812SB.TEH
Srimad-Bhagavatam 3.22.22
and Initiations

Tehran, August 12, 1976
Prabhupada: He knows the rules and regulations?
Atreya Rsi: Yes, Srila Prabhupada.
Prabhupada: Let him say. Let him say.
Atreya Rsi: You can say it in English?
Mustafa: I can't say it completely correctly.
Prabhupada: Say it in English. No illicit sex, no gambling, no intoxication, no meat-eating.
Mustafa: ...and eggs and fish.
Atreya Rsi: His name in Parsi, his name is Mustafa.
Prabhupada: So his spiritual name Vallabha dasa.
Atreya Rsi: Balab?
Prabhupada: Vallabha dasa. Not like that, here.
Atreya Rsi: Vallabha dasa. His name is, in Parsi, Hussain. It means "all-compassionate."
Prabhupada: So far the ten offenses, you will teach them. Your name, Sridhara dasa.
Atreya Rsi: Sridhara dasa.
Prabhupada: Hare Krsna. So read one passage from the books.
Pradyumna: (leads chanting, etc.)
Translation: "After having unmistakenly known the decision of the Queen, as well as that of Devahuti, the Emperor most gladly gave his daughter to the sage, whose host of virtues was equaled to hers."
Prabhupada: (repeats verse in Sanskrit) So here is the Emperor Manu, so he decided to give his daughter to Kardama Muni. And the sanction of the Queen, that was also expected. That means the father's sanction, the mother's sanction, and the girl who is going to be married, her sanction. These things are required before marriage takes place. Nowadays, dampatye ratim eva hi svikaram eva udvahe: marriage takes place simply by agreement between the parties, the boy and the girl. They can go to any magistrate and get it registered. But according to Vedic system, that is not the system. The system is the father, mother also must agree. The agreement must be, the parents' sanction must be there.
So guna-ganadhyaya, Kardama Muni, great yogi, what to speak about his qualities. Dadau tulyam, and Devahuti also equally qualified. So this kind of marriage is very happy marriage, and the result of such marriage is Kapiladeva. Because the marriage was very appealing, therefore Lord Kapiladeva, incarnation of Krsna, He appeared in the womb of Devahuti. There are two Kapilas, original Kapila is the son of Devahuti and Kardama Muni. Therefore He is particularly known as Devahuti-putra Kapila. Sankhya philosophy was enunciated by Him. He taught His mother also. You'll find all those instructions of Kapila Muni to His mother. So the system was very nice. Everything was there. There was no question of simply brahmacaris. No. There are married couples. This Kardama Muni was a great yogi. Still, he married. There was no disturbance. Although he promised one son only to Devahuti, but I think he got another nine daughters. So very nice system, everything was therebut for the purpose of realization of the highest truth. That is the civilization. Nothing has to be stopped; everything can go on. For bodily comforts we are very much busy, that's nice. But if you increase the bodily comforts, there is no limit. That should not be the purpose of life.
In a Bengali proverb it is said, sarire na mahaseya ye sahaye taya saba. This body is so nice that if you practice something, it will be accustomed. Just like we are sitting on the floor. If we practice to sit on the floor, there is no necessity of this couch. We are not refusing couch if available, but not that without couch I cannot sit. This kind of civilization is condemned. Besides that, we have got our own business. The real business is athato brahma jijnasa. Jivasya tattva-jijnasa. In the Srimad Bhagavatam you will find, kamasya nendriya-pritir [SB 1.2.10]. So there are some necessities for sense gratification, but not for the senses, but for spiritual upliftment. Jivasya tattva-jijnasa. The life is meant for inquiring about the Absolute Truth.
So we cannot spare our valuable time for bodily comforts, sacrificing our real aim of life, self-realization. That is not civilization. That is animal civilization. First consideration is self-realization. Therefore you'll find Vedic civilization very simple because they took it main business, self-realization. The bodily comforts... Big, big kings, because they had to rule over the country, some gorgeous type, style of living. They were... Ordinary persons, they were satisfied in a cottage. Still you'll find in India in the villagesI think here also the samethey don't mind. I see from the street the original walls.(?) They are not very much interested how to live comfortably. The real purpose of life should be done. At the present moment the civilization is simply for bodily comforts. Divasa-sarira-saje. Whole day is spoiled for trying how to make the, keep the body in comfortable situation. That is not the purpose of life. The purpose of life is, we should supply the necessities of the body as you can keep fit for executing spiritual purpose. But at the present moment there is no spiritual purpose, simply bodily comforts. This is the civilization of animals. As animals they do not know anything except bodily comforts. If human society becomes like that, then it is animal society. And because it is animal society, there is no peace in spite of advancement of material conforts.
So we can take instruction from the vivid, living examples of this Kardama Muni and Devahuti. Kardama Muni is an ascetic, very simple living, and Devahuti is the daughter of emperor. And she agreed to marry Kardama Muni, so, engage in the service of her husband. So just imagine a person, ascetic. What assets he has got? No home, no good food, nothing. Still she agreed gladly. Here it is said, dadau tulyam praharsitah. So 'nu jnatva vyavasitam mahisya duhituh sphutam. Duhituh, consent of the daughter. It was, the daughter's consent was taken, "Whether you like," but she selected her husband. She told that "There is Kardama Muni. I want to marry him, that Kardama Muni." She expressed her desire to her father, and the father and mother came to offer the daughter to Kardama Muni. The first consent was the daughter's. Now just see, she was emperor's daughter, how comfortably she was living, but she voluntarily accepted all the difficulties for becoming the wife of an ascetic. You cannot expect royal comforts when one becomes the wife of an ascetic. Of course, later on everything was given to her by the mystic power of Kardama Muni, but in the beginning she accepted in a very humble cottage to live with her husband and serve him.
Thank you very much. (end)

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