binds one to material world

 
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This may seem to be a simple instruction to follow, but invariably our reaction is, "Oh, surrender? Give up? But I have so many responsibilities." And maya, illusion, says to us, "Don't do it, or you'll be out of my clutches. Just stay in my clutches, and I'll kick you." It is a fact that we are constantly being kicked by maya, just as the male-ass is kicked in the face by the she-ass when he comes for sex. Similarly, cats and dogs are always fighting and whining when they have sex. These are the tricks of nature. Even an elephant in the jungle is caught by the use of a trained she-elephant who leads him into a pit. Maya has many activities, and in the material world her strongest shackle is the female. Of course in actuality we are neither male nor female-for these designations refer only to the outer dress, the body. We are all actually Krsna's servants. In conditioned life, however, we are shackled by the iron chains which take the form of beautiful women. Thus every male is bound by sex life, and therefore when one attempts to gain liberation from the material clutches, he must first learn to control the sex urge. Unrestricted sex puts one fully in the clutches of illusion. Lord Caitanya Mahaprabhu officially renounced this illusion at the age of twenty-four, although His wife was sixteen and His mother seventy, and He was the only male member of the family. Although He was a brahmana and was not rich, He took sannyasa, the renounced order of life, and thus extricated Himself from family entanglement.    (More...)
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This material life is sammoha, aham mameti. Atha... The material life begins: pumsaḥ striya mithuni-bhavam etat [SB 5.5.8]. This material life is described in four lines. What is this material life? Now, pumsaḥ striya mithuni-bhavam etam. Etat, this material life, is nothing but an attraction of sex. Pumsam striya. The man is after woman, and woman is after man. This is material life, beginning. Everywhere, not only human society. Even in bird society, dog society, cat society or demigods' society-everywhere you'll see the sex attraction. Pumsaḥ striya mithuni-bhavam etam tayor mitho hrdaya-granthim ahuḥ. And... They are seeking, and as soon as they are joined together to satisfy the sex desire, their the, I mean to say, attraction becomes more and more tight. Then ato grha-ksetra-sutapta-vittair janasya moho 'yam aham mameti [SB 5.5.8]. So as soon as they are combined, they require one house or apartment or cottage or nest. Something must be private. Ataḥ grha-ksetra. Then to work, to earn livelihood, one must have some land. Either you construct skyscraper building or till it for get some food grain. Ataḥ grha-ksetra, suta. Then without children, married life is frustrated. Putra-hinam grham sūnyam. Married life without children is void. Vidya hinam jivanam sūnyam. If one is not educated, his life is vacate, or vacant. Vidya hinam jivanam sūnyam disaḥ sūnya deva abandhavaḥ. And if you go to some foreign country, if there is no deva, temple, God's temple, or friend, that is also useless. And putra-hinam grham sūnyam. And if you have no children, the so-called married life is also void. And sarva-sūnya daridrata. And if you are poor, in poverty, then everything is zero. Even if you have got a wife, or even if you have got education, even you have got friend, everything is... That is Canakya Panḍita's advice.    (More...)
So this family life is attraction. Grha-ksetra, then suta, children. Then apta, relatives. In this way, janasya moho 'yam aham mameti, he becomes entangled in this material life. But that is moha. That is not fact. It is moha in this sense, because we have to change this body. In this body I have created something, grha-ksetra-sutapta-vittaiḥ, and at the time of death, as Krsna says, mrtyuḥ sarva-haras ca aham. Krsna takes away everything as death. Your grha, your house, your land, your wife, your children, your friend, your reputation-everything is taken away. And then you have to begin another life. Tatha dehantara-praptiḥ [Bg 2.13].    (More...)

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