jnatayah-relatives, family members; pitarau-the father and mother; putrah-children; bhratarah-brothers; suhrdah-friends; apare-and others; yat-whatever; vadanti-they suggest (in regard to one's means of livelihood); yat-whatever; icchanti-they wish; ca-and; anumodeta-he should agree; nirmamah-but without taking them seriously.