dampatyor bhāva ekatra sator apy anuraktayoḥ svābhīṣṭāśleṣa-vīkṣādi- nirodhī māna ucyate

Mana is a word used to indicate the mood of the lover and the beloved experienced whether they are in one place or in different places. This mood obstructs their looking at one another and embracing one another, despite the fact that they are attached to one another.