I know that you are competent to manage any department, whichever department you like you can render your service and keep yourself peaceful with your good wife.
There is no impediment for grhasthas to become fully Krsna conscious. All of Caitanya Mahaprabhu's associates were grhasthas and all of them helped Caitanya Mahaprabhu in His missionary activities. Later on He took
sannyasa and specifically He was assisted by
Svarupa Damodara, but still He had intimate relations with grhasthas like
Advaita Acarya,
Nityananda,
Gadadhara, and Srivas
Thakura. (
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